Many websites and books claim that you can complete a
divorce on your own without the need for legal help. While it is indeed possible
for a couple to complete the process of divorce on their own, doing so
is extremely unlikely as it requires a considerable level of cooperation
between spouses and an intimate knowledge of divorce law. Given the emotionally
charged nature of issues such as
child custody and
alimony, it is extremely rare for couples to agree on every aspect of their separation
without legal guidance. Since many decisions during divorce can affect
you for the rest of your life, it is vital that these decisions are made
with the assistance of a skilled lawyer.
The following reasons explain why you should not approach a divorce on your own:
1. Emotions: While both you and your spouse may agree that divorce is the way to go,
it can be extremely difficult to set aside your emotions and think clearly
during this time. Emotions can impair thinking and greatly inhibit a couple’s
ability to communicate and cooperate. An attorney can provide unbiased
guidance to help you and your spouse collaborate towards a mutually acceptable
2. Finances: Without the assistance of an attorney, you may lose out on certain marital
assets that you would otherwise be entitled to receive. It is not uncommon
for spouses to attempt to hide asset from each other during the divorce
process. A lawyer can examine your financial arrangement with a fine-toothed
comb and ensure you are getting a fair share of your marital assets.
3. Children: Protecting your children is likely your top priority during a divorce.
A lawyer can defend their wellbeing and help you secure an arrangement
that is in the child’s best interests. This is especially important
if your spouse exhibits abusive tendencies and you are fearful for your
4. Mistakes: Making mistakes can be costly in many ways. While clerical errors can delay
your divorce, mistakes such as underestimating assets or forgetting certain
paperwork can harm your case and potentially expose you to serious consequences.
Making mistakes can also test a judge’s patience, which is never
a good thing. An attorney can ensure all necessary paperwork is filed
on time and accurately completed, saving you the trouble of potential mishaps.
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If you are looking to dissolve your marriage, a Hamden divorce attorney
from Goldblatt, Marquette & Rashba, P.C. can represent your interests
and help you pursue an amicable resolution to your divorce. Having earned
an AV® Rating by Martindale-Hubbell® for our unparalleled ethics
and skills, your case is sure to be in excellent hands.
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